Bob Grant | Private Coaching
How can I help you?
That is the question I open every coaching call with.
Not what is wrong with you. Not what your whole story is. Just: how can I help you?
Most women who find me have already done the work. They have read the books. Done the programs. Maybe even worked with a therapist. They are capable women who are successful at almost everything else in their lives.
Love is the one place that has not made sense to them yet.
Maybe the man you wanted has pulled away and you cannot name what changed. Maybe your marriage has gone quiet and you are tired of pretending you do not notice. Maybe you keep meeting men who look right and turn out to be wrong. Maybe you have stopped trying altogether and you are not sure you should have.
Whatever brought you here, the question is the same.
Tell me what is happening. I will tell you what I see.
Here is what I have noticed
What they cannot figure out is why none of it has worked in love.
Shelly worked with me privately. A year after we finished, she sent me this.
“When people ask me how it is going with David in our marriage, I say one thing. I am at peace.”
“It is so weird to be with someone that provides me with such calm and peace in my life. There is no drama. No need to wait for the shoe to drop, because it never does.”
“He tells me I’m beautiful every day. He tells me he loves me every day. He brings me flowers all the time. I never knew that someone like him could actually exist.”
“I just figured they were all jerks. So I thought I just needed to try and find the best of the worst jerks. So not true.”
“Years and years and years of therapy and I never accomplished in all those years what I have from working with Bob.” — Marisa V., coaching client
“In February we were separating. Three weeks ago he proposed. We marry in August.” — Caroline, coaching client
“He had been seeing two other women when I found out. After working with Bob, he stopped seeing them and chose me exclusively. He never knew what hit him.” — Heather, coaching client
“I had given up. Bob showed me what I was missing in less than one session. Six months later, I am engaged to a man who actually shows up.” — Lauren, coaching client
Who this works best for
I have done this long enough to know who gets the most out of it. Three things, and I am going to be direct about them.
You are willing to put in about an hour a week between sessions. Not therapy homework. Not journaling assignments. Small things I ask you to try in your actual life, the kind that will tell us both very quickly what is going on. If you are not going to try them, this will not work, no matter how good the sessions are.
You are open to hearing something you have not heard before. Most of what I tell women is not what their friends have said. It is not what the books said either. If you came to me to have your existing read confirmed, I am the wrong person. If you came because what you have tried has not worked, you are in the right place.
You are treating this as a real investment. I do not mean the money, though that matters. I mean you are showing up the way you would show up if a doctor told you what was actually wrong. Take notes. Try the thing. Come back and tell me what happened. The women who do that are the ones who write me a year later from a different life.
If that is you, the three options below will tell you which one to pick.
Three ways to work with me
Most women start with a single session. Some know right away they want more time. A small number are ready for full hands-on support. Whichever fits your situation, the conversation is direct, and the work begins on the call.
Option 1 | Start Here
Single Coaching Session
$695 / 45-minute session
One call. You bring me what is happening. I tell you what he is actually thinking, what is driving it, and what would shift it. Most women leave the first session knowing something they have been trying to figure out for years.
Good fit if you want a clear read on your situation before deciding what comes next.
Option 2 | Most Popular
11-Session Coaching Package
$7,000 / 11 sessions (save $645)
Eleven sessions, used at your pace. This is the container most of my clients choose. It is enough time to work through the specific situation, see results take hold, and build something steady instead of patching what keeps breaking.
Good fit if you already know one session is not the whole answer and you want the room to do this right.
Option 3 | By Invitation
Done With You Program
By application / significant investment
One year of direct work with me. You tell me what you want. I listen, name what is actually in the way, and tell you what to do about it. You do not have to know how. That is my job.
Once you are in, your problem is my problem. Not a course. Not a group. A direct line to the one person who can tell you what he was actually thinking, what he was actually feeling, and what would have changed it.
This is not for everyone. The investment is significant. But if you are a woman who is successful in every other area of her life and you are done trying to figure this out on your own, tell me about your situation.
Tell me about your situation →
I read every one of these personally.
How we work together
Sessions are forty-five minutes, on the phone. No video, no typing, no apps. Just your voice and mine.
Between sessions, package and Done With You clients have access to a private group of women doing this same work. Most of my clients say the group ends up mattering as much as the sessions, because for the first time they are around women who understand what they are dealing with.
You are not doing this alone.
What I do not do
I am not a therapist. I do not diagnose, treat mental illness, or replace the care of a licensed professional. If you are dealing with abuse, active addiction, a partner in crisis, or your own mental health crisis, please work with a qualified therapist first. You can come back to this when you are stable. The disclaimer page has the full scope.
I do not do couples work. Coaching is with you, not with you and your partner. In my experience, one person shifting changes the whole system. That is how this work is built.
I do not promise outcomes. I will not tell you he will come back, your marriage will be saved, or that you will feel different in thirty days. What I will promise is the truth about what I see, what I think will help, and what the work actually looks like. The outcome is up to you and the life you are in.
P.S. Shelly married David on Valentine’s Day.
When people ask how things are going, she says one thing.
“I am at peace.”
That is what you are looking for. And I know how to help you find it. The first step is one call.